“Who is/are the most important people in your life?”
Well, she‘s someone very important to me…
I can’t live without her …
She plays a very important role in shaping up my personality as well as the life of an individual.
She acknowledged me for who I am.
She is my financial support.
She accepts me with my mistakes and weaknesses and still loves me.
She is someone who always lent her listening ears for my whinny moments.
She is someone who nags at me more than my mother do.
She is someone who just is irreplaceable…
She has been taking care of my life for 20 years and she has been running in my life nonstop, as if she’s my blood circulating in my body.
People say we look alike, just like we manufactured from the same mold.
I always remembered what a lady had said previously. “You two are sister hor? Is this your elder sister (pointing and referring to me!)” I was so pissed off then. Come to think of it, I am very petty for it happened long ago! LOL..
As days and years goes by, I got naturally too emotionally attached to the life with her. Life without her seems to be very miserable at start but slowly adapted to it. It makes me realize how weak I am.
The days we see each other start to reduce drastically from her single status to marriage and eventually to giving birth. It’s inevitable, I know. Something that occurs naturally when a girl gets attached, then married, and then wanted to start a new family; which is when a newborn arrived.
I never hoped for my parents’ attention. I started to get matured earlier than other kids and realised they are always either too busy or forgetful to care about my daily life. They never ask how I fare for my results and they never care for my emotions. Perhaps, I’m traumatised by my childhood and she is the only one who truly cares for me and really knows what I wanted.
Come to think of it, I’m just like a kid whom wanted attention and approval from this someone important to me. This behaviour of mine yearns for love and concern that only belongs to me.
I think I am demanding for too much attention for this age.
Like I said, as time goes by, I tend to adapt to it and grow up to how an adult should behave and it's time to kick off the bad habit of mine.
As mentioned in one of previous post, most of my close friends knew that my newborn nephew has finally arrived to this world on September 19. She had a hard time taking care of her troublesome son. Therefore, we seldom meet up.
Nephew Post link
B.U.T I’m happy that we get to meet up quite often recentleee!!
First Meet Up:
She brought Tristan home the 2nd time. I remembered the first time was some auspicious ceremony after his 1st month that they have to bring him back to pray to our ancestors.
Nothing much, it just some regular “interchange shopping” that we used to do when we are at home. Ohya, it was the day when she brought me surprise; my early Christmas present (my Samsung F480 pink phone).
Then we went walking round interchange in this manner.
He does look uncomfortable, but seriously I think he’s not, because he was sleeping in this position very quietly. He was quite obedient for not crying in public areas in being carried in such manner.
Second meet up:
We went facial together for the second round!
Luckily we managed to have dinner together, which was supposed to be cancelled! I was actually very happy and contented with it though it was just a dinner only.
We always ordered for couple room whereby we can do facial together.
This wasn’t consulted for permission.
My facial consultant tried to squeeze my pimple out which she had made my condition worst >.<
Now, it felt a scar there. I hope I would be able to get rid of it before Chinese New Year. I still remember the process. It was AGONIZING!! When I was about to fall asleep from the relaxing mood, I was stunned when she started to do something to my pimple. I think she used the tip of her thumb and index finger to squeeze my pimple. It totally wakes me up from my sleepy mood. It lasted less than 5 minutes where she keeps on poking my pimple. It felt as though someone punched and pinched the face! Of course it bleeds, painful experience. I think I was squinting my eyes all the while. It’s quite funny to think about my expressions.
We had dinner at a coffee shop, somewhere near, on the way to Outram Park station. We actually ate at the place unknowingly, not because of the food, but rather we followed our instinct. We followed the crowd. We went there twice and it is always crowded with people. So we assumed that the food would be good, if not there wouldn’t be so many people queuing for it.
Their specialty is porridge; especially frog porridge.
This is what we had.
Something different would be the “sashimi”. I think it’s quite rare (at least for me) to have this dish at 煮炒摊。It tasted really well with the fried onions, chili and lime juice.
Third meet up:
We arranged to meet up with my parents. They wanted to see their grandson badly. So we had lunch at IKEA on one of the Saturday afternoon.
See this picture?
It tells u that babies goes after boobs and not mummy face. This little fellow was trying to attack his grandmother boobs, informing her that it’s time for him to eat too. There goes his bad temper (cries~), the only way for him to express recently.
This is wad we had for lunch:
Salmon fishee …
Mine Favourite: chicken wings

And of course the meat balls.
Look kind of disgusting? I know …
But it really taste nice with the jam and the potato sauce~
Talking about him recognising boobs, my sis hurried up finished her food and quickly feed him. There he goes, sucking his milk.
Everyone was staring at him. He had attracted everybody’s attention.
Such caring parents he had. To prevent him from getting the blazing sunlight, they prepared him with this cute goggle, or u may think that it’s a sunglass!
Forth meet up:
Esprit Post link
Yea, it’s the ANGRY ESPRIT spree.
Yes, I brought nothing back from the sales >.<
Had lunch cum dinner before shopping.
It was my first experience eating at the “The Soup Spoon”.
There’s always a first time towards everything.
I had mine:
Tangy Tomato with Basil
It is a vegetarian puree of roasted tomatoes and basil. Orangey hue with a tinge of red, this soup is creamy and has the smell of freshly roasted tomatoes blended to perfection. On first taste, it slides down the throat with smoothness, first tasting tangy and then slightly spicy leaving a warm tingling after taste.
Herbed Chicken Caesar
Rosemary Chicken, Onion, Cucumber, Romaine Lettuce, Tomato, Caesar Dressing
She had hers:
Velvety Mushroom Stroganoff
Feels almost like eating fresh mushrooms out of the field. The mushrooms are so smooth, they glide down the throat. This soup is overpowering with the aroma of mushrooms perfect for mushroom lovers.
Smoked Ham & Cheese
Smoked Ham, Cheddar Cheese, Green Salad, Honey Mustard Mayo
I prefer my tangy tomato soup over the mushroom soup. Tangy Tomato with Basil was a very appetizing soup as it is not very sourly and spicy; just nice. But as for the mushroom soup, you get sick of it when had more spoonful due to the strong mushroom taste.
It was a very filling meal indeed.
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That's all for now...
“We concerned about each other’s well being only because we love each other. Without love, a tie would cease to exist. Then, there is trust, understanding and devotion that make important people who they are. If you do not have such feeling towards them, then it will never ever be a group of closely-bonded people; rather it would be a group of individuals that is known as acquaintance.”